therapy
my latest therapy buy.
he's just not that into you
by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo
yeah yeah it may sound like a cheesy title. but forget that, its got a lot of good stuff in there which helps me in 3 main ways.
1) to keep 'sober'
2) to understand a lil more
3) to urge me to move on.
of course, no.3 is proving a toughie, we are still in the process of that. but yeah.
its covers excuses i've thought about and feelings i've felt.
sure, its not an answer to all the problems per se.
but its helping to give me a "daily wake up call".
little needle-like pricks just to remind me that this guy aint worth it.
that i shld just accept that nothing's happening and let it go.
found this one, applicable to darth vader, jra [and to a lesser extent ssr]
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"A man would rather be trampled by elephants that are on fire than tell you that he's just not that into you."
in particular, this one regarding darth vader,
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The "But I Just Want an Answer" Excuse
Do you deserve to know what happened? Yes. But unfortunately for you, I can tell you what happened. You were dating the worst person in the world.
Nothing he could possibly say will be satisfying to you. But what will be satisfying is if you dont spent another moment of your energy on him."
-and im glad that i dont anymore. forget about ever trying to talk to me.
and this one, definitely.
when i used to wish i hadn't asked him online but face to face and wldve had the chance to thrash it out smehow. or when the prom serviette idea came up.
187
The "But Can't I at Least Yell at Him?" Excuse
In the short term it might feel good to call someone and yell at him. But in the long run, you will have wished that you had not given him that much credit for ruining your life. Or even your day."
since the day i bought it.. i flip thru the pgs every now and then.
and gain little tokens of wisdom.
waste of money? not to me.
with every relevant, applicable read, a little hope dies inside.
and well, with me, that's not such a bad thing.. cos left on its own, it would never die at all.
he's just not that into you
by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo
yeah yeah it may sound like a cheesy title. but forget that, its got a lot of good stuff in there which helps me in 3 main ways.
1) to keep 'sober'
2) to understand a lil more
3) to urge me to move on.
of course, no.3 is proving a toughie, we are still in the process of that. but yeah.
its covers excuses i've thought about and feelings i've felt.
sure, its not an answer to all the problems per se.
but its helping to give me a "daily wake up call".
little needle-like pricks just to remind me that this guy aint worth it.
that i shld just accept that nothing's happening and let it go.
found this one, applicable to darth vader, jra [and to a lesser extent ssr]
"A man would rather be trampled by elephants that are on fire than tell you that he's just not that into you."
in particular, this one regarding darth vader,
The "But I Just Want an Answer" Excuse
Do you deserve to know what happened? Yes. But unfortunately for you, I can tell you what happened. You were dating the worst person in the world.
Nothing he could possibly say will be satisfying to you. But what will be satisfying is if you dont spent another moment of your energy on him."
-and im glad that i dont anymore. forget about ever trying to talk to me.
and this one, definitely.
when i used to wish i hadn't asked him online but face to face and wldve had the chance to thrash it out smehow. or when the prom serviette idea came up.
The "But Can't I at Least Yell at Him?" Excuse
In the short term it might feel good to call someone and yell at him. But in the long run, you will have wished that you had not given him that much credit for ruining your life. Or even your day."
since the day i bought it.. i flip thru the pgs every now and then.
and gain little tokens of wisdom.
waste of money? not to me.
with every relevant, applicable read, a little hope dies inside.
and well, with me, that's not such a bad thing.. cos left on its own, it would never die at all.
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