for me

this one MUST HAVE been written for me.

191
"Dont ask yourself what you did wrong or how you could have done it differently. Dont waste your valuable heart and mind trying to figure out why he did what he did. Or thinking back on all the things he said, and wondering what was the truth and what was the lie. The only thing you need to know is that its really good news: He's gone. Hallelujah."

and this one too.

192
"There's nothing worse, in dating terms, nothing worse, than that sick feeling you get in the pit of your stomach when it looks like the guy you were seeing or getting to know has decided to bail on you instead of talking to you about it."
its looking like that again.
the sick feeling i've felt before, and feel again now.

and THIS (below), is my problem.

6
"We go out with someone, we get excited about them, and then they do something that mildly disappoints us. Then they keep doing a lot more things that disappoint us. Then we go into hyper-excuse mode for weeks or possibly months, because the last thing we want to think is that this great guy that we are so excited about is in the process of turning into a creep. WE try to come up with some explanation for why they're behaving that way, any explanation, no matter how ridiculous, than the one explanation that's the truth: HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO ME."
-story of my life.

can you now see, why i love this book?